I actually had an incident happen to me earlier this afternoon. I was at the local mall and heard a interesting conversation happening behind me. A female security guard was looking for someone to translate Spanish into English for a guest of the mall. In a very loud voice she asked the young man, who looked Mexican, to translate for this family. She spoke very loudly and drew unnecessary attention to the situation. She assumed from his physical appearance that he would obviously know how to speak Spanish and be able to help out the situation. He carefully explained to her that he did not know Spanish and that he couldn't help. It was a very embarrassing situation and I felt bad for the young man. She made an assumption that was incorrect and was uncomfortable for everyone involved. He job was to bus tables and my observation was that he felt bad about not being able to help.
In the past I probably wouldn't have noticed this injustice. Due to the past few classes and what I have learned I picked up on it right away and was sympathetic to the employee. This employee was singled out from all of the other employees in the area due to his dark skin. I watched the security person and after she asked the employee for help, she did not attempt to ask anyone else. There were equal chances that the white, female at the food court would have been very fluent in Spanish but was not asked.
A part of me wanted to walk over and explain to the lady that should be more sensitive to the feelings of the employee. First of all, she attracted unnecessary attention to the situation and seemed to have embarrassed the employee. I did not see the family that needed translation but they would have probably felt uncomfortable as well. I think the employee handled the injustice with grace and sensitivity. The security guard was probably unaware of her actions and with some education and pointers would see how her assumptions might have been insulting.
Unfortunately, we live in an area with very little diversity and culture. She might have not had many opportunities to experience different cultures and consider the fact that she might be insulting. The comment made wasn't meant to be insulting. I think her tone and volume were inappropriate but besides that her comments were unfair but also unintentional.
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"My Connections to Play"
Two quotes:
Vygotsky - "Children use private speech in play to regulate behavior"
"Creative play is a central activity in the lives of healthy children."
Almon, K. (2002) The vital role of play in early childhood
education. Gateways, 43.
My family, especially my mom, was very supportive of play. She recognized its importance. My sister and I loved to play with our friends. She would take us to the community pool and parks and we would play all day. When we got a little older we got a trampoline and jumped on it for much of the day. We had a playroom above our garage in Tennessee and we played there for many hours even though it got very hot at times. My sister and I loved to play with dolls. My mom always said she would be my best friend and as we got older did not encourage many outside friendships. I think that hurt our social skills a little. Now we talk every once in a while, have very different lives and see each other about 2-3 times per year. Even though we are still very close and had many years of play as children, we have drifted apart. My dad was really good at playing with us also. He took us on our boat all the time and encouraged more of the rough and tumble type of play. Both my mom and taught us to be resourceful and take care of ourselves, almost to a fault.
As I attempt to write my blog assignement I feel play has changed a great deal since when we were younger. We would go all day without seeing the inside of our house and find things to play with. All three of my boys are sitting around my table asking me questions and saying they are bored. I live about 2 blocks from one of the most beautiful lakes and beaches in the country and 1 block from an elementary school playground. There are children all over this neighborhood to play with and they are asking me what they can do. Where have I gone wrong in this scenario? They have come to rely on me as their "social director" and I have probably enabled that. Play is very different. I am going to cancel cable and hide the playstation and nintendo ds's for the summer. My kids are older and possibly beyond help. I hope that young children will be pulled away from the computers, tv and other electronic devices. I hope they will be in a safe place to be able to venture out and make friends. Parents need to be more confident in their childrens ability and need to become independent players. I think sometimes parents protect their children and don't let them make mistakes at an early age.
I have included pictures of my boys below at the beach. This is what we love to do these days. This was on a spring break vacation. My youngest sons favorite toy was a palm branch he found the first day. Again, an item from nature that I didn't have to purchase that entertained him. Nice!!
Vygotsky - "Children use private speech in play to regulate behavior"
"Creative play is a central activity in the lives of healthy children."
Almon, K. (2002) The vital role of play in early childhood
education. Gateways, 43.
My family, especially my mom, was very supportive of play. She recognized its importance. My sister and I loved to play with our friends. She would take us to the community pool and parks and we would play all day. When we got a little older we got a trampoline and jumped on it for much of the day. We had a playroom above our garage in Tennessee and we played there for many hours even though it got very hot at times. My sister and I loved to play with dolls. My mom always said she would be my best friend and as we got older did not encourage many outside friendships. I think that hurt our social skills a little. Now we talk every once in a while, have very different lives and see each other about 2-3 times per year. Even though we are still very close and had many years of play as children, we have drifted apart. My dad was really good at playing with us also. He took us on our boat all the time and encouraged more of the rough and tumble type of play. Both my mom and taught us to be resourceful and take care of ourselves, almost to a fault.
As I attempt to write my blog assignement I feel play has changed a great deal since when we were younger. We would go all day without seeing the inside of our house and find things to play with. All three of my boys are sitting around my table asking me questions and saying they are bored. I live about 2 blocks from one of the most beautiful lakes and beaches in the country and 1 block from an elementary school playground. There are children all over this neighborhood to play with and they are asking me what they can do. Where have I gone wrong in this scenario? They have come to rely on me as their "social director" and I have probably enabled that. Play is very different. I am going to cancel cable and hide the playstation and nintendo ds's for the summer. My kids are older and possibly beyond help. I hope that young children will be pulled away from the computers, tv and other electronic devices. I hope they will be in a safe place to be able to venture out and make friends. Parents need to be more confident in their childrens ability and need to become independent players. I think sometimes parents protect their children and don't let them make mistakes at an early age.
I have included pictures of my boys below at the beach. This is what we love to do these days. This was on a spring break vacation. My youngest sons favorite toy was a palm branch he found the first day. Again, an item from nature that I didn't have to purchase that entertained him. Nice!!
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Tracy,
ReplyDeleteIsn't it funny that things like this happen constantly in every day life and we have never really been in tune to them before? I agree with you that the woman had no intention of being insulting but clearly did not think before acting.
Tracy,
ReplyDeleteYes I totally agree with Leigh, these things happen on a daily basis and we have never really been in tune until we started this course. My opinion: Hispanics do not get the respect they deserve. They are really hard working people just like any one of us.Sometimes those who have power only over power others because of their self insecurity's and personal bias in which they are not comfortable with. What happen to ..."all men are created equal"?!